3 Simple Habits For A Happier Life

In coaching sessions, when I ask my clients how they want to feel, most respond with 'I want to feel happy'. That's what it comes down to really. We want to feel happy everyday and we want to know that we've lived a good life. But, if you focus your awareness on how you're feeling right now, can you say that you're generally happy? What does being happy really look like for YOU?

On the journey to discovering more about happiness, I started reading the growing research into what makes us happy and how we can cultivate it intentionally. What I love about intentionality is that it implies we have a choice and ultimately, we do! Let me repeat that... we have a choice! 

The more I learned, the more enthusiasm I felt. It was so simple really. We could do little things each day that could transform how we experience our life and the role we play in our community. And the best part; happiness has a ripple effect (three degrees of separation to be exact). I wanted to share what I'd learned and eventually, gave a talk about cultivating happiness habits. 

Happy tip: When you feel enthusiastic about something, be curious about why that is and let the enthusiasm be your compass. Mine partnered me up with two wonderful and talented people and we created #HappinessHabits613. Yours can be the beginning of true passion and meaning in your life. 

The question you should be asking isn’t, “What do I want?” or “What are my goals?” but “What would excite me?
— Timothy Ferriss

Now, I'm on the journey to create the SPACE for others to find their own happiness. 

In the video below, I talk about discovering happiness and the story behind why my business is called Beautiful Happy Reasons

 

I once read the quote "there are so many beautiful reasons to be happy" and it just made sense. That's where Beautiful Happy Reasons comes from. My reasons are what I'm grateful for everyday. With so many distractions, we sometimes have to remind ourselves that happiness is in our control and we can cultivate it right NOW

 

take action

Here's three simple ways to get you started:

1. Start A Gratitude Journal

Take a few minutes to write down 3 things you're grateful for everyday (you'll end up writing more than 3). Gratitude is such an important practice. It enhances our positive language and teaches us to see the abundance in our lives. And you know what, it takes only 30 seconds! 

2. Give Back

Traditionally, giving back can mean giving your time or money to a cause and even though that's really important, giving back can include everyday kindnesses.  No act of kindness is too small. A kind word, smiling at a stranger. It takes nothing but means everything because you're acknowledging the presence of the other person and really, we all just want to be SEEN. 

3. Spend Time With Your TRIBE

When we're stressed or overwhelmed we tend to hide away until it blows over. That can make us feel more isolated. What we actually need to do is go hang out with those that fill the space with positive energy when we're around them.

 

My #HappinessHabits613 co-founders and I outlined 9 habits that you can start doing every day to cultivate a happy life. Download it here

 

I'd love to hear from you!

What does happiness look like for you? How are you cultivating happiness on a daily basis?